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Get ready for the online communication
When you browse others’ profiles, you’ll find someone interesting, or someone attractive, and want to have further communication. Usually, you need to take the time to record some typical/important characters of the profile so that you know the profile owner’s interest, hobbies, etc. You may talk about them when you email or chat with the profile owner. There are 2 advantages: 1) You can find interesting topics during the communication and confirm if he/she lied in the profile, 2) You can dig this deeply for a better knowledge of your mate.

Be enthusiastic
Remember, enthusiasm helps a lot when you talk with someone. When utilizing email and online chat, being enthusiastic and eager would help keep the interest level high on both sides.

Make your messages creative
Now you are interested in someone and want to send him/her a message. Please do not repeat the content which has been listed on your profile, as it’s really redundant and boring. In your email, you need to talk about something new, or some specific topics which are not included in your profile. It helps your date learn more about you from a new perspective.

Respond ASAP if photo is requested
Sometimes you may get request for more photos, although you’ve posted several great photos on your profile. If you meet this problem, don’t ask your mate to check your profile again, because it makes little sense and shows yourself as an arrogant guy. So, a quick respond with 1 or 2 recent photos attached would be a good idea. Tip: if someone asks for more photo, usually he/she is doubt whether the photos on the profile is real or up to date.

Make sure no typos or grammar errors
Have you ever received emails/chat messages from your desired match, with lots of spelling/grammatical mistakes in the message? Nothing can be worse than that. Everybody knows that a gentleman/woman with good education will never make such mistakes. If you are too busy and don’t have enough time to create the well-written response, please, don’t send the messages out until you have checked your messages for a second time. You can even send the response later. It’s much better than a message which brings bad impression to your mate.

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Dating through the Internet has never been more popular ever before. But when it comes to getting familiar with someone online, or when to meet your cyber mate offline, you’ll find that anonymity of online dating is not as good as it is exclaimed. After talking with some dating experts from the online Millionaire Matchmaker, we can’t help sharing the following tips with our members without any delay, as we believed that it will be helpful for those who are still in the online dating group.

First, the lack of face to face interaction sometimes can be quite misleading. When you show interest in someone, it just means you are interested in the photo. And when you show interest in characters in someone, you are just interested in what he/she said. Since everyone has the right to decorate the profile and show the better side, what you read on the profile may not be the truth. As the old saying tells us that "love is blind", the Internet dating makes the love even more blind.

Second, when you date someone, you may care about the age of your counterpart. But, following the "profile decoration" principle, many members, both male and female, may make their age younger. If you read their photos, you may not notice that as the photos may be taken from many years ago.

Since the problem is so serious, don’t we have any solutions for that? The answer is yes for sure. And that’s also the reason why this article is created. Following the tips from the Millionaire Match Counselor, you can do at least 3 things to make sure the one you are dating is real.

First, if you are interested in the guy, spend more time in investigating the profile. Just compare the photo and the profile description carefully. Possibly, you’ll find something unusual. For example, someone says he is a successful businessmen with a great background, and you find he is bad dressed stays before a small inn; or if someone says he has blond hair blond eyes, and his photo is not consistent with that; you should be aware of that this member is lying, at least, not 100% honest.

Second, on some quality dating sites, verified members are more credible and trustworthy. On the Millionaire Dating clubs, members are allowed to verify photo, age, income, occupation and education. Seems more and more verification are on the working agenda. If you choose a verified member, you choose a real member.

Last but not least, if you are really interested in someone who has a great photo, great description as well as a great sense of humor, in short, everything sounds too good to be true. But unfortunately, that member is not verified, not a recommended member, what will you do? Risk yourself and check it out? Or just simply give up? Of course, neither. You should talk with the website customer service and check if this member is a normal one on the website. As customer service, they have more information of any members. However, they’ll not tell you everything you want, but usually, they will help you check and confirm if this member is abusive or not. That’s enough!

To succeed in online dating, what you need is far more than time, patience and email/chat. You need to be witty enough to filter out all the inappropriate dates from all the candidates in the first step. For more tips, visit Online Millionaire Matchmaker.

I know  it’s hard to sustain a long-distance romance when you’re not dating with the goal of finding a partner. If the relationship is a good one, you eventually will want the status quo to change, and both of you may be unwilling to make geographic and other changes without a long-term commitment.

Here are some suggestions that make a long-distance courtship easier and they are very likely to increase the chance of success. If you hit it off well on your first couple of dates, emails and periodic telephone calls are a good way to build your friendship and to get to know each other better once you return home. However, there’s no substitute for face-to-face contact. Optimally, we advise you to get together again after one-to-three months of long-distance courtship, to renew the attraction you felt when you first met, and to add a dimension that only being in each other’s presence can provide.

This is where long-distance dating can get sticky. Often, you’ve invested so much time, effort and money into arrangements to meet, that you literally overdose on each other when you do get together. Everyone needs time between dates to let their emotional and intellectual processes work themselves through. Long-distance daters have to learn to juggle their desire to maximize their short time together, with their need for personal space. Years of experience has taught us that people who try to spend most of their waking minutes together, often ends up tense, unsettled and unhappy.

We recommend that plan meet each other  on the weekend in the same city, you give yourselves a block of a few hours’ time apart each day. If you both will be in the same vicinity for a week or more, consider one or two long dates (go on a daytime hike or spend an afternoon-into-evening together) as well as a couple of evening dates. But space your dates one-to-three days apart, and vary your activities together. During the down-time, visit family, see friends, make business contacts, shop, sightsee, read a book, work out at a gym — there are plenty of productive things you can do to fill your time.

After the interlude, if the two of you agree that you’d like to keep your courtship going, you can continue your long-distance e-mails and phone calls, but focus on another time in the near future that will allow you to spend time together again. You may have to make some modifications to suit your own needs, but we have seen this method of long-distance courtship lead to many now-happily married couples. In fact, Rosie had a bi-coastal courtship that resulted in a great marriage.

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Probably you’ve heard of this item a million times, but we still have to mention this once again when you create your profile. Because it’s vital important to have a real, honest profile.

When you create your own profile, you must be honest. When you view others’ profiles, you want to view honest profile only.

Some guys may not want to disclose their real age, or their real photos on an dating site just like millionaire cupid, that’s a very big problem. Yes, at the very beginning, others will not know you are lying about yourself. But very soon, the problem will be there and it’s really hard for you to keep the talk on, let alone the relationship.

Quick Tips:
1. Just be honest if you care about race in your profile.
2. To have your preference is absolutely OK. If you want something from your partner, just show it in your dating profile.
3.Be specific in your expectations, the more specific the more you will filter your prospects.
4.Don’t lead someone on with lies or false pretenses.

Believe or not there are a few people looking for that, I am definitely not one of them. Be read between the lines carefully of their profile and pull out key things that leave you intrigued.

Women’s profiles has been and will always be one of the most important section in any upscale dating clubs. No matter you are on Millionaire Matchmaker, Wants Millionaire, Millionaire Match, or Rich Men Dating, you will find that the beautiful and attractive women got the most clicks. If you are men, you tend to hit attractive beautiful women’s pictures; if you are women, you should try all your best to improve your profile and show others your best. Here are some tips for you:

1) Pick a seemingly normal headline. It’s like the old saying, "Don’t judge a book by its cover." Well truth be told, most guys do. This being said, if you write something ridiculous down in the headline most guys will write you off.

2) Pick your photo wisely. This is a selling point for most guys. Physical attraction is the first test of any prospective relationship. Make sure you pick a photo which you believe portrays you attractively.

3) Don’t post about your problems, everyone has their own issues. Men are looking for someone to have a relationship with not be your psychologist.

4) Be honest in your profile, writing down lies will only set you up for disappointment, and will not help others get a true insight into your personality.

5) Be open about what you are looking for in a prospective partner. If a guy thinks he is able to offer you what you are looking for then he will be more willing to initiate contact.

It’s always a challenge to make that initial contact.

Do I just throw out a wink and see if they respond or should I write something and if I write something, how can I appear clever, witty or charming?

Good questions all and the answer lies in simplicity and “candor”, yes candor.

1. There a song by Lee Ann Womack whose lyrics say “And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance. I hope you dance …” OK, there’s your answer. Are you in or out? Do you really want to make a connection with this person or are you casting out your net to see what (or who) inadvertently swims into it. The latter is not ideal and not designed to produce the desired results.

2. Serious MMers know the difference. So I recommend that if you’re really interested in meeting this person, WRITE SOMETHING! Writing is an expression of interest and an investment of time. It reveals to the reader much about your creativity, vulnerability and enthusiasm.

3. For those of you who employ the shotgun approach, while playing the numbers game may eventually produce “a result”, wouldn’t it be better to contact fewer MMers with quality contact designed to get a positive response and that first date?

4. So what to write? Easy, read their profile and search out their interest and desires, for ex. you can comment on a funny photo, a particular item of clothing (don’t be rude or crude – nice cleavage comments won’t earn you any points- be respectful)

5. Just about every subscriber will “open the door” to an enticing and welcome comment. Just read their desires and be creative. For ex, if the ad states the the lady likes a man who wears fine clothes, you can open with “I’m a refined gentleman with an eclectic wardrobe but I will admit I have been seen in public wearing Bermuda shorts and flip flops” See, it gets the message across meeting her expectation tinged with a bit of humor. That’s the ticket my friends.

6. A subscriber wrote, “I don’t like rude or arrogant people” A humorous response could be, “I know you don’t like rude or arrogant people but I’m a lawyer and I hope you wont hold it against me”

7. How about, after checking who’s viewed me, ” I caught you looking and I’m glad you did, can we talk”

The initial contact should be open, honest, respectful and a bit humorous to get the maximum response. After a reply from your intended, ITS ALL UP TO YOU! So just be yourself and good luck.

Writing personal ads on a dating website should be considered an art in its own right. For decades personal ads have appeared in magazines and newspapers all over the world, and for decades people have struggled to describe themselves in 25 words or less. It is difficult, impossible really, to fully sum up one’s essence in just a few lines, including likes, dislikes, interests and goals. These days the top quality dating sites offer more sophisticated personal ads, which are usually called profiles. Unlike the older personal ads in newspapers, modern profiles are detailed and in-depth and often help the user to build his or her description by taking a test or answering a series of questions. Even though describing yourself to a virtual stranger will always be difficult, making a free profile and getting yourself in the dating scene can be done if you follow our advice.

If you want to get the best of your personal ads membership, try to present the right image and get people to interact with you by chatting daily, make note of these 10 personal ad tips:

1. An obvious one – complete your personal ad profile fully. And accurately! Currently, more than 50% of the dating sites may ask you to complete your profile before you can do anything else. If your profile is considered as fake or partially fake, you may get removed immediately. There is nothing worse for a browsing member than spending their quality time opening your profile only to find your profile is full of Ask Me statements. So … Be informative, be complete, be thorough, be interesting.

2. Add a photograph or two or even four and more! On the Millionaire Matchmaker, you can even upload up to 27 photos, which is enough to show your smiling faces. Amazingly, members with photos in their personal ads are likely to get up to 10 times more replies than members without any photo image attached to their profile. Okay, so even if we aren’t all photogenic models, any photo is far better than none at all.

3. Don’t be aggressive or rude in personal ads. Nobody likes that. It may be your sense of humor to be sarcastic or cutting, but it doesn’t always come across best in anonymous text. Biting humor in the first instance will not usually attract the desired attention, even if it’s meant to be amusing. That comes once you are chatting face to face.

4. You may have had a bad experience with a previous partner, but making a list of specific criteria a future partner must meet usually has the effect of making people look elsewhere. Even if they match! We all seek Mr. and Miss Right, but turning dating into a job interview removes every ounce of romance and passion from the occasion.

5. No matter how you speak in your day-to-day life, don’t use swear or curse words in your profile, personal ad, conversations or emails! They are generally offensive and turn people off. Again, swearing is like sarcasm — people may find your colorful language charming in face-to-face conversations, but without context your cursing may make you seem uneducated or angry.

6. Make your personal ad truthful above all things, but also emphasize your best characteristics. Admitting that you are a loner who has no friends will not win you many admirers, but emphasizing that you are a true individual will. Learning to sell yourself a bit without exaggerating is your best bet.

7. If you really feel passionate about something say so, don’t try and hide the things that are important to you. If you love partying say so, if your religion is important to you, say so. Be yourself, and be upfront with who you are.

8. Do not pretend that you are willing to fly half way round the world to meet someone if you are not. It’s not fair to anyone including you. If you are really only looking for someone in your state or close to home then stick with that and make it clear.

9. Always try and reply to people’s messages and reply in a reasonable amount of time, not weeks later. If you are serious about dating, you are serious about replying to personal messages. Give people the ability to move on to other potential partners if you are not interested. Conversely, don’t email someone weeks later and not expect that they haven’t written you off!

10. Be positive! The more you project a friendly and positive attitude, the more likely people are going to be attracted to you. Smile in your photo and be inviting in your chats and comments. People who seem bitter, negative or conceited push others away — people on dating websites are often sensitive to rejection, so who would want to take a chance getting to know someone who may end up being cruel or mean?

Be patient, it takes time to find someone special using personal ads but it does work. After all, it’s just that one special person that you wish to meet. Sometimes you need to chat to quite a few people first. Know that the missteps and fizzles in chemistry are part of the process. Take your time to complete your personal ads, take your time to chat with many different people, and take your time to get to know someone well. It’s all part of moving toward the day when you find that special someone.

To post photos on your dating profile is very important. But some people just send webcam photos to their profiles, which is not a good sign. It’s convenient, but it make bring bad influences to your profile visitors.

I’m sorry to tell you folks, but it makes no sense to me why someone would post only a webcam photo to their profile. Surely you must have family, or friends or been involved in activities or events that have captured the essence of who you are – in that moment, among family or friends or colleagues…

For me, a picture tells me a lot about you – your personality, your character and who you are when you’re around others. These are NOT things I’m able to tell from a webcam photo. So, webcam photos are not so welcome in the upscale millionaire dating community like WantsMillionaire.com.

Convenient as it might be, here are a few first impressions I get when I see you in a webcam photo. I hope you find this helpful:

1. ARE YOU DISTORTED or DISTURBED? Webcam photos can produce horrible quality images sometimes making you look scary and distorted – as if you just stepped out of the Twilight Zone or were staring face-first into one of those crazy carnival mirrors.

2. I CAN’T SEE YOU! webcam photos are often too dark making it hard to see you and details of you – your smile or the color of your hair and eyes, for example.

3. DO YOU HAVE FAMILY AND FRIENDS? Is there no one who has taken a decent picture of you that, again, captures who you are? Or are you a kind of a loner? Not family-oriented? Maybe you don’t have any friends?

4. ARE YOU LAZY? is that why you haven’t taken the time to find a few quality photo’s and upload them?

It might be that some of you(like those without a printer/scanner at home or a cable to connect a camera to your computer) think you don’t have access to the technology to scan and upload photo’s, but you do! Go to Walgreen’s, Snyders, Target or WalMart – SO MANY places today will take your photo’s and put them on CD making it easy for you to upload images from!

Now, if you already knew this, then it begs to question: what could possibly be the reason you haven’t done this? Is it:

TIME? then I wonder how much time you would have for a relationship;

INITIATIVE? then I wonder what kind of goals you have and what you could give to a relationship;

RESOURCES or TECHNOLOGY? then I wonder about your resourcefulness because like I said, there are options out there!

5. ARE YOU LACKING THE FINANCES TO INVEST IN SCANNING A FEW GOOD PICTURES? It’s a fairly small investment to transfer photos to CD, so I might wonder about your ability to contribute to dating and a relationship.

6. PHOTOGENIC INSECURITY? don’t worry about it… so many of us are not photogenic! Listen, if you’re not photogenic in a photograph, it’s worse in a webcam photo. Not to mention, like I said in the beginning, just having a photo that tells a story about you – where you were; who you were with; how you enjoyed your time would be worth 100 Xs more than any webcam photo would give us!

So please, take a moment to consider what I’ve said. You’ve taken the steps to get here, and you must be here to find love or other attention… so do it right and do it well.

Because as they say, we don’t get a 2nd chance to make a 1st impression.

On a side note and THIS is important, too – make SURE your pictures are within the last few years! Don’t forget that one of the great things about this site is being able to post public comments on a person’s profile… you wouldn’t want someone who thinks they were misled by your profile pictures saying so on your profile.

Well, I hope what I’ve shared with you is helpful… Good luck and "put your best face forward!" as they say…

May you find the love that you’re looking for!

(Millionaire Matchmaker dating tip) This is about first time meeting a date from online, newspaper, phone calls. You are excited about meeting your date. You’ve been talking on the phone for a while, and your date wants to meet you. Your date may recommend a location close to him, but this is a warning sign. Always choose a public place that is very close to where you live, or from work near your job. Never go out of your way to meet your date. You never know what is lurking. (Want Millionaire Dating Advice)

So, you go to meet your date at his location which could be an hour from where you live, for an example, and the date is set in the evening time,lets say, 9pm. Now you are out at night, far away from home to meet your date at a bar restaurant. You go there and he first shows his drivers license. (Now he never mentioned this to you before) but you are glad he did this, maybe he is honest and harmless. So you show your drivers license. He ask what you want to drink. Oh, when you came in the bar, he was already there sitting at the counter talking to another woman. That is a red flag. Anyway, you have a drink and you think maybe we will eat too. But instead he says, want to take you to another restaurant further down near the ocean (in this case) we are near beaches. So it startle you to do this, but you remembered he showed you his driver’s license, and you have been talking a bit on the phone or email. So you follow him in your car,but he goes to a building, that is an apartment complex. Now it is in a very upscale location. Very high class. So you get out your car, now you are nervous, but remember you can always change your mind, if you get in a situation like this and get the checkout of their. It is dark, you are nervous maybe, but he is a gentleman. So you go into the apartment with him. You observe his surroundings. He shows off a room with lots of pictures of people and family and even looks like he was in the armed or police force.  He says I am going to prepare you dinner. You are shocked, you thought you were going out to eat. So he makes a salad, tells you to sit down at the table. He talks about his dinnerware set, high class stuff. If you have any, means nothing to you. He is in the kitchen. (Want Millionaire Dating Advice)

Well let me tell you what he is doing, he is putting a date rape drug in your food, if he had not already put in your drink. So he places the salad in front of you and you notice he only made one plate, that is another warning sign. Now you are in it. You eat the salad, although you really don’t want to but he made it. He standing around you while you eat. So he plays a little music, pours some wine, and then before you know it you are all over him or he to you but he will be a gentlemen about. The moral of this story is always go to a local place near where you live, during daylight and have a drink or eat maybe walk around if not ready to end if you like this person first of all and call it a day.  You have to take time before going on dates that you are unsure about. You have to remember how you met this person and there are limits for your safety. You were lucky that you made it out of there. If your mind is strong, at some point you know to leave but it may take awhile, but again this person was a gentleman, he did not force himself on you. But what he did was drug you. It is all the same. You are lucky. Some are violet. And this happens to a lot of young college girls on day at the university. This happens to ladies in a club who walks away from their drinks. It is all the same. So be patient. I know you are excited but let time take its course when dating an unknown and no past to recollect with. (Want Millionaire Dating Advice)

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(Millionaire Dating tips) For you to fully benefit from the opportunities that online dating/chatting and email present you with, you must firstly be completely honest with yourself why it is you have chosen to try online dating, and secondly what it is you are looking to find. Can you meet your true love on the Internet? Absolutely, but it takes much more than just a few flirtatious emails and chats to find "the one".

For everyone to fully benefit from online dating your profile is key. Be open, be honest, and by far the most important part, be yourself! Everyone finds attraction in someone they know is comfortable in their own skin, and is confident in who they are. Once you have established your profile and are happy with it you can move on to searching for possible matches. Everyone seems to look for someone closer to where they themselves live. Now there are many benefits of course with searching for someone in your same area, but do not be afraid to explore new horizons and look for that special guy or girl in Paris or England or wherever! This site has unlimited possibilities and so do you, so go ahead and search the world, you never know what you may find!

Once you find a few possible contenders, send a few winks or maybe a friendly email and wait and see if they tag you back. If the fish don’t bite straight away don’t get down on yourself! Maybe update your profile a little, add some more information about yourself spice it up, and add photos that show your adventurous side.Remember, online dating is just like shopping in a sense, not everyone is going to be a perfect fit, but the fact that your here and your trying is what brings us all together.

Make sure that once you initiate a few emails and chats with that possible match never be afraid to ask questions, some people have more experience with online dating and everyone is always willing to encourage and ensure each other. We all have the same goal, so keep an open mind, and your heart will follow.

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