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Get ready for the online communication
When you browse others’ profiles, you’ll find someone interesting, or someone attractive, and want to have further communication. Usually, you need to take the time to record some typical/important characters of the profile so that you know the profile owner’s interest, hobbies, etc. You may talk about them when you email or chat with the profile owner. There are 2 advantages: 1) You can find interesting topics during the communication and confirm if he/she lied in the profile, 2) You can dig this deeply for a better knowledge of your mate.

Be enthusiastic
Remember, enthusiasm helps a lot when you talk with someone. When utilizing email and online chat, being enthusiastic and eager would help keep the interest level high on both sides.

Make your messages creative
Now you are interested in someone and want to send him/her a message. Please do not repeat the content which has been listed on your profile, as it’s really redundant and boring. In your email, you need to talk about something new, or some specific topics which are not included in your profile. It helps your date learn more about you from a new perspective.

Respond ASAP if photo is requested
Sometimes you may get request for more photos, although you’ve posted several great photos on your profile. If you meet this problem, don’t ask your mate to check your profile again, because it makes little sense and shows yourself as an arrogant guy. So, a quick respond with 1 or 2 recent photos attached would be a good idea. Tip: if someone asks for more photo, usually he/she is doubt whether the photos on the profile is real or up to date.

Make sure no typos or grammar errors
Have you ever received emails/chat messages from your desired match, with lots of spelling/grammatical mistakes in the message? Nothing can be worse than that. Everybody knows that a gentleman/woman with good education will never make such mistakes. If you are too busy and don’t have enough time to create the well-written response, please, don’t send the messages out until you have checked your messages for a second time. You can even send the response later. It’s much better than a message which brings bad impression to your mate.

Tips originated from the dating experiences from Millionaire Match. You can join Millionaire Match for free to learn more tips from this millionaire dating club.

Dating through the Internet has never been more popular ever before. But when it comes to getting familiar with someone online, or when to meet your cyber mate offline, you’ll find that anonymity of online dating is not as good as it is exclaimed. After talking with some dating experts from the online Millionaire Matchmaker, we can’t help sharing the following tips with our members without any delay, as we believed that it will be helpful for those who are still in the online dating group.

First, the lack of face to face interaction sometimes can be quite misleading. When you show interest in someone, it just means you are interested in the photo. And when you show interest in characters in someone, you are just interested in what he/she said. Since everyone has the right to decorate the profile and show the better side, what you read on the profile may not be the truth. As the old saying tells us that "love is blind", the Internet dating makes the love even more blind.

Second, when you date someone, you may care about the age of your counterpart. But, following the "profile decoration" principle, many members, both male and female, may make their age younger. If you read their photos, you may not notice that as the photos may be taken from many years ago.

Since the problem is so serious, don’t we have any solutions for that? The answer is yes for sure. And that’s also the reason why this article is created. Following the tips from the Millionaire Match Counselor, you can do at least 3 things to make sure the one you are dating is real.

First, if you are interested in the guy, spend more time in investigating the profile. Just compare the photo and the profile description carefully. Possibly, you’ll find something unusual. For example, someone says he is a successful businessmen with a great background, and you find he is bad dressed stays before a small inn; or if someone says he has blond hair blond eyes, and his photo is not consistent with that; you should be aware of that this member is lying, at least, not 100% honest.

Second, on some quality dating sites, verified members are more credible and trustworthy. On the Millionaire Dating clubs, members are allowed to verify photo, age, income, occupation and education. Seems more and more verification are on the working agenda. If you choose a verified member, you choose a real member.

Last but not least, if you are really interested in someone who has a great photo, great description as well as a great sense of humor, in short, everything sounds too good to be true. But unfortunately, that member is not verified, not a recommended member, what will you do? Risk yourself and check it out? Or just simply give up? Of course, neither. You should talk with the website customer service and check if this member is a normal one on the website. As customer service, they have more information of any members. However, they’ll not tell you everything you want, but usually, they will help you check and confirm if this member is abusive or not. That’s enough!

To succeed in online dating, what you need is far more than time, patience and email/chat. You need to be witty enough to filter out all the inappropriate dates from all the candidates in the first step. For more tips, visit Online Millionaire Matchmaker.

While you are enjoying the benefits of online dating, the online dating safety may still disturb you. Communicating with new and strange people can be quite scary and tricky to some singles, especially those beautiful women or wealthy people.

A friend of mine started dating on a millionaires club wantsmillionaire.com. A few days after her registration, a man approached her and exchanged emails back and forth. Then, it’s the time for them to meet each other. She feels quite uncomfortable as the guy who claims to have great background is not a verified member. She did a background check on google without getting any useful info. So, she is worrying about whether she should meet the man. Any similar experiences?

Just a couple of months ago, we did some investigation and posted an article "Millionaire Matchmaker: Ladies, safety tip for your first meet up" on want millionaire dating advice. Probably, this is the right time for us to return to this topic and dig out some further problems.

On any dating clubs, you may meet both honest members and abusive members. It’s not correct to say the dating site is good or bad just because you met some some good or bad members. On WantsMillionaire.com, you will meet the following members: 1) Recommended members, 2) Verified members, 3) Standard members. According to experiences, recommended members and verified members are credible and real. Generally speaking, they are double checked and confirmed by the website. If you contact them, there will be no problems. For standard members without verification, you need to be more careful and try your best to filter out those abusive ones.

As a member of this site for almost 1 year, I’d share some of my experiences for filtering out abusive members. First, if someone asked you to chat with him/her on yahoo IM or other IM in the first email, or ask you to tell your real email address so that you two can communicate more conveniently, what’s your first reaction? Yes, abusive member. Don’t follow him/her tip, or you will get into the trap. The reason is quite simple: they can’t stay long on the site. So, they ask you to communicate off the site. Every time I meet such members, I send them to support. About 1 day later, I will get an email from support saying that the member has been removed. Got it?

Second, some members may post very beautiful photos on their profiles, and their profile info is well written. But you can find lots of spelling/grammar problems in their email messages. What do you think of them? Possible scammer from Africa. Send them to support too.

Third, I did also meet some tricky abusive members too. At the very beginning, everything goes well. Maybe, one month later, or during the time for our face to face meet, they will meet some urgent problems and they need money. Many members may fall into the trap as they trust them to a certain degree. No, that’s not the truth. It’s still scam. You need to be aware of that.

All in all, all of the problematic members are standard members. Not recommended, not verified. So, if you want to make yourself better protected, try to search those recommended or verified members, not everyone who looks good to you. At the same time, if you want to show yourself as a credible guy, make yourself verified.

Since there are more and more members complained about the rejection problem of millionaire dating, which is also a common problem for online dating, we’ve prepared some posts for this topic on our dating column. Link: http://www.wantmillionaire.com/dating/rejection-rejected-date-millionaire

Why will you be interested in this topic?

If you are still trying online dating, you are very likely to get "No, thanks" from the guys whom might be your Mr/Mrs Right in your own thought. Or you may not get a word from them even you’ve messaged them once, twice, or even more than 3 times. Usually, you’ll be discouraged and disappointed with the whole online dating scene. Check some stories from others and you will find that you are not the only guy who did meet this problem. 

What you can get from dating rejection?

First, you will be more confortable if you know that you are not the only one who received rejection. Second, you will be able to know how to treat it correctly following others’ examples.

Rejection is unavoidable in online dating. The reason is quite simple: there are millions of singles who are registered with the online dating network, but you just need one people who is right for you. If you contact the other 999999+ singles, usually you will get "No, thanks" or no response.

Come on! Get rid of the rejections and filter out the right people for you. Millionaire Dating

Probably you’ve heard of this item a million times, but we still have to mention this once again when you create your profile. Because it’s vital important to have a real, honest profile.

When you create your own profile, you must be honest. When you view others’ profiles, you want to view honest profile only.

Some guys may not want to disclose their real age, or their real photos on an dating site just like millionaire cupid, that’s a very big problem. Yes, at the very beginning, others will not know you are lying about yourself. But very soon, the problem will be there and it’s really hard for you to keep the talk on, let alone the relationship.

Quick Tips:
1. Just be honest if you care about race in your profile.
2. To have your preference is absolutely OK. If you want something from your partner, just show it in your dating profile.
3.Be specific in your expectations, the more specific the more you will filter your prospects.
4.Don’t lead someone on with lies or false pretenses.

Believe or not there are a few people looking for that, I am definitely not one of them. Be read between the lines carefully of their profile and pull out key things that leave you intrigued.

Women’s profiles has been and will always be one of the most important section in any upscale dating clubs. No matter you are on Millionaire Matchmaker, Wants Millionaire, Millionaire Match, or Rich Men Dating, you will find that the beautiful and attractive women got the most clicks. If you are men, you tend to hit attractive beautiful women’s pictures; if you are women, you should try all your best to improve your profile and show others your best. Here are some tips for you:

1) Pick a seemingly normal headline. It’s like the old saying, "Don’t judge a book by its cover." Well truth be told, most guys do. This being said, if you write something ridiculous down in the headline most guys will write you off.

2) Pick your photo wisely. This is a selling point for most guys. Physical attraction is the first test of any prospective relationship. Make sure you pick a photo which you believe portrays you attractively.

3) Don’t post about your problems, everyone has their own issues. Men are looking for someone to have a relationship with not be your psychologist.

4) Be honest in your profile, writing down lies will only set you up for disappointment, and will not help others get a true insight into your personality.

5) Be open about what you are looking for in a prospective partner. If a guy thinks he is able to offer you what you are looking for then he will be more willing to initiate contact.

Do you see a profile that you are interested in but you don’t know how to initiate a conversation with the person you are interested in? You know that you don’t want to sound cheezy or corny but you can’t quite think of the perfect thing to say.

Well first I would like to start off by saying make sure you don’t use any pick up lines. If you want the person you are interested in to take you seriously, any lines like.. "" you must be an angel, because I’m sure you fell straight from heaven" won’t work and it most likely will result in that person deleting your email and not taking a proper chance on you.

I have found that the best method to use when trying to approach them is to first off…BE YOURSELF! You want them to take you seriously and not think that your some goof ball just looking tor a hang out bubby and not a long term relationship.

Second, start with HELLO! That seems like such an obvious tip but you would be surprised at how many people don’t realize that the person you are interested in is just a normal person who would be more responsive to a kind hello then some ”pickup line".

Third, keep it light and flirty. A couple lines are all that’s needed to get a conversation started. You don’t have to give them your whole bio in the first initial email. That is sure to turn the person off because they can feel like you are providing them with ”TMI” and going on and on. It can also give them the impression that you like to talk to much about yourself. KEEP IT SHORT, FLIRTY, AND SWEET.

Fourth, If you see that you share a common interest with them then you could mention that in your email. This is a perfect ice breaker because it gives you something to talk about.

Fifth, It’s a awesome idea to ASK A QUESTION! This almost insures a reply. Because if you are asking someone a question..they feel that you are really trying to get to know them as a person and the door is opened for conversation.

A sample ice breaker would be. Hello, I saw your profile and it sparked my interest. Your smile caught my eye as well. I see that you are interested in fishing. Fishing is one of my favorite past times. How often do you fish?” See…a couple lines…you have initiated that you have something in common and you asked them a question. So now they have something to reply back to.

Hopes this helps you in your initial contact to breaking the ice. On millionaire matchmaker, use these tips and you are almost sure to get a reply!

It’s always a challenge to make that initial contact.

Do I just throw out a wink and see if they respond or should I write something and if I write something, how can I appear clever, witty or charming?

Good questions all and the answer lies in simplicity and “candor”, yes candor.

1. There a song by Lee Ann Womack whose lyrics say “And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance. I hope you dance …” OK, there’s your answer. Are you in or out? Do you really want to make a connection with this person or are you casting out your net to see what (or who) inadvertently swims into it. The latter is not ideal and not designed to produce the desired results.

2. Serious MMers know the difference. So I recommend that if you’re really interested in meeting this person, WRITE SOMETHING! Writing is an expression of interest and an investment of time. It reveals to the reader much about your creativity, vulnerability and enthusiasm.

3. For those of you who employ the shotgun approach, while playing the numbers game may eventually produce “a result”, wouldn’t it be better to contact fewer MMers with quality contact designed to get a positive response and that first date?

4. So what to write? Easy, read their profile and search out their interest and desires, for ex. you can comment on a funny photo, a particular item of clothing (don’t be rude or crude – nice cleavage comments won’t earn you any points- be respectful)

5. Just about every subscriber will “open the door” to an enticing and welcome comment. Just read their desires and be creative. For ex, if the ad states the the lady likes a man who wears fine clothes, you can open with “I’m a refined gentleman with an eclectic wardrobe but I will admit I have been seen in public wearing Bermuda shorts and flip flops” See, it gets the message across meeting her expectation tinged with a bit of humor. That’s the ticket my friends.

6. A subscriber wrote, “I don’t like rude or arrogant people” A humorous response could be, “I know you don’t like rude or arrogant people but I’m a lawyer and I hope you wont hold it against me”

7. How about, after checking who’s viewed me, ” I caught you looking and I’m glad you did, can we talk”

The initial contact should be open, honest, respectful and a bit humorous to get the maximum response. After a reply from your intended, ITS ALL UP TO YOU! So just be yourself and good luck.

We all know that photo is very important for an online dating profile. But what kind of photo catches the others’ attention?

First, pick out your favorite photos, and then pick out the best one in your own eyes, add it to your dating profile and put it as your main photo.

Some criteria for the best photo:

1. Are you smiling?

2. Are you making eye contact with the camera?

3. Is this photo up to date?

4. Are you confident in the photo?

If you answered yes to all four of those questions, then it’s probably the perfect picture to post on your profile.

Confidence in your photo will make you less hesitant to contact other members. If you are not confident in your photo, you won’t want anyone else to see it. Thus equaling less e-mails being sent from you to other members.

(Millionaire Matchmaker dating tip) This is about first time meeting a date from online, newspaper, phone calls. You are excited about meeting your date. You’ve been talking on the phone for a while, and your date wants to meet you. Your date may recommend a location close to him, but this is a warning sign. Always choose a public place that is very close to where you live, or from work near your job. Never go out of your way to meet your date. You never know what is lurking. (Want Millionaire Dating Advice)

So, you go to meet your date at his location which could be an hour from where you live, for an example, and the date is set in the evening time,lets say, 9pm. Now you are out at night, far away from home to meet your date at a bar restaurant. You go there and he first shows his drivers license. (Now he never mentioned this to you before) but you are glad he did this, maybe he is honest and harmless. So you show your drivers license. He ask what you want to drink. Oh, when you came in the bar, he was already there sitting at the counter talking to another woman. That is a red flag. Anyway, you have a drink and you think maybe we will eat too. But instead he says, want to take you to another restaurant further down near the ocean (in this case) we are near beaches. So it startle you to do this, but you remembered he showed you his driver’s license, and you have been talking a bit on the phone or email. So you follow him in your car,but he goes to a building, that is an apartment complex. Now it is in a very upscale location. Very high class. So you get out your car, now you are nervous, but remember you can always change your mind, if you get in a situation like this and get the checkout of their. It is dark, you are nervous maybe, but he is a gentleman. So you go into the apartment with him. You observe his surroundings. He shows off a room with lots of pictures of people and family and even looks like he was in the armed or police force.  He says I am going to prepare you dinner. You are shocked, you thought you were going out to eat. So he makes a salad, tells you to sit down at the table. He talks about his dinnerware set, high class stuff. If you have any, means nothing to you. He is in the kitchen. (Want Millionaire Dating Advice)

Well let me tell you what he is doing, he is putting a date rape drug in your food, if he had not already put in your drink. So he places the salad in front of you and you notice he only made one plate, that is another warning sign. Now you are in it. You eat the salad, although you really don’t want to but he made it. He standing around you while you eat. So he plays a little music, pours some wine, and then before you know it you are all over him or he to you but he will be a gentlemen about. The moral of this story is always go to a local place near where you live, during daylight and have a drink or eat maybe walk around if not ready to end if you like this person first of all and call it a day.  You have to take time before going on dates that you are unsure about. You have to remember how you met this person and there are limits for your safety. You were lucky that you made it out of there. If your mind is strong, at some point you know to leave but it may take awhile, but again this person was a gentleman, he did not force himself on you. But what he did was drug you. It is all the same. You are lucky. Some are violet. And this happens to a lot of young college girls on day at the university. This happens to ladies in a club who walks away from their drinks. It is all the same. So be patient. I know you are excited but let time take its course when dating an unknown and no past to recollect with. (Want Millionaire Dating Advice)

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