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Do you see a profile that you are interested in but you don’t know how to initiate a conversation with the person you are interested in? You know that you don’t want to sound cheezy or corny but you can’t quite think of the perfect thing to say.

Well first I would like to start off by saying make sure you don’t use any pick up lines. If you want the person you are interested in to take you seriously, any lines like.. "" you must be an angel, because I’m sure you fell straight from heaven" won’t work and it most likely will result in that person deleting your email and not taking a proper chance on you.

I have found that the best method to use when trying to approach them is to first off…BE YOURSELF! You want them to take you seriously and not think that your some goof ball just looking tor a hang out bubby and not a long term relationship.

Second, start with HELLO! That seems like such an obvious tip but you would be surprised at how many people don’t realize that the person you are interested in is just a normal person who would be more responsive to a kind hello then some ”pickup line".

Third, keep it light and flirty. A couple lines are all that’s needed to get a conversation started. You don’t have to give them your whole bio in the first initial email. That is sure to turn the person off because they can feel like you are providing them with ”TMI” and going on and on. It can also give them the impression that you like to talk to much about yourself. KEEP IT SHORT, FLIRTY, AND SWEET.

Fourth, If you see that you share a common interest with them then you could mention that in your email. This is a perfect ice breaker because it gives you something to talk about.

Fifth, It’s a awesome idea to ASK A QUESTION! This almost insures a reply. Because if you are asking someone a question..they feel that you are really trying to get to know them as a person and the door is opened for conversation.

A sample ice breaker would be. Hello, I saw your profile and it sparked my interest. Your smile caught my eye as well. I see that you are interested in fishing. Fishing is one of my favorite past times. How often do you fish?” See…a couple lines…you have initiated that you have something in common and you asked them a question. So now they have something to reply back to.

Hopes this helps you in your initial contact to breaking the ice. On millionaire matchmaker, use these tips and you are almost sure to get a reply!

It’s always a challenge to make that initial contact.

Do I just throw out a wink and see if they respond or should I write something and if I write something, how can I appear clever, witty or charming?

Good questions all and the answer lies in simplicity and “candor”, yes candor.

1. There a song by Lee Ann Womack whose lyrics say “And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance. I hope you dance …” OK, there’s your answer. Are you in or out? Do you really want to make a connection with this person or are you casting out your net to see what (or who) inadvertently swims into it. The latter is not ideal and not designed to produce the desired results.

2. Serious MMers know the difference. So I recommend that if you’re really interested in meeting this person, WRITE SOMETHING! Writing is an expression of interest and an investment of time. It reveals to the reader much about your creativity, vulnerability and enthusiasm.

3. For those of you who employ the shotgun approach, while playing the numbers game may eventually produce “a result”, wouldn’t it be better to contact fewer MMers with quality contact designed to get a positive response and that first date?

4. So what to write? Easy, read their profile and search out their interest and desires, for ex. you can comment on a funny photo, a particular item of clothing (don’t be rude or crude – nice cleavage comments won’t earn you any points- be respectful)

5. Just about every subscriber will “open the door” to an enticing and welcome comment. Just read their desires and be creative. For ex, if the ad states the the lady likes a man who wears fine clothes, you can open with “I’m a refined gentleman with an eclectic wardrobe but I will admit I have been seen in public wearing Bermuda shorts and flip flops” See, it gets the message across meeting her expectation tinged with a bit of humor. That’s the ticket my friends.

6. A subscriber wrote, “I don’t like rude or arrogant people” A humorous response could be, “I know you don’t like rude or arrogant people but I’m a lawyer and I hope you wont hold it against me”

7. How about, after checking who’s viewed me, ” I caught you looking and I’m glad you did, can we talk”

The initial contact should be open, honest, respectful and a bit humorous to get the maximum response. After a reply from your intended, ITS ALL UP TO YOU! So just be yourself and good luck.

We all know that photo is very important for an online dating profile. But what kind of photo catches the others’ attention?

First, pick out your favorite photos, and then pick out the best one in your own eyes, add it to your dating profile and put it as your main photo.

Some criteria for the best photo:

1. Are you smiling?

2. Are you making eye contact with the camera?

3. Is this photo up to date?

4. Are you confident in the photo?

If you answered yes to all four of those questions, then it’s probably the perfect picture to post on your profile.

Confidence in your photo will make you less hesitant to contact other members. If you are not confident in your photo, you won’t want anyone else to see it. Thus equaling less e-mails being sent from you to other members.

(Millionaire Matchmaker dating tip) This is about first time meeting a date from online, newspaper, phone calls. You are excited about meeting your date. You’ve been talking on the phone for a while, and your date wants to meet you. Your date may recommend a location close to him, but this is a warning sign. Always choose a public place that is very close to where you live, or from work near your job. Never go out of your way to meet your date. You never know what is lurking. (Want Millionaire Dating Advice)

So, you go to meet your date at his location which could be an hour from where you live, for an example, and the date is set in the evening time,lets say, 9pm. Now you are out at night, far away from home to meet your date at a bar restaurant. You go there and he first shows his drivers license. (Now he never mentioned this to you before) but you are glad he did this, maybe he is honest and harmless. So you show your drivers license. He ask what you want to drink. Oh, when you came in the bar, he was already there sitting at the counter talking to another woman. That is a red flag. Anyway, you have a drink and you think maybe we will eat too. But instead he says, want to take you to another restaurant further down near the ocean (in this case) we are near beaches. So it startle you to do this, but you remembered he showed you his driver’s license, and you have been talking a bit on the phone or email. So you follow him in your car,but he goes to a building, that is an apartment complex. Now it is in a very upscale location. Very high class. So you get out your car, now you are nervous, but remember you can always change your mind, if you get in a situation like this and get the checkout of their. It is dark, you are nervous maybe, but he is a gentleman. So you go into the apartment with him. You observe his surroundings. He shows off a room with lots of pictures of people and family and even looks like he was in the armed or police force.  He says I am going to prepare you dinner. You are shocked, you thought you were going out to eat. So he makes a salad, tells you to sit down at the table. He talks about his dinnerware set, high class stuff. If you have any, means nothing to you. He is in the kitchen. (Want Millionaire Dating Advice)

Well let me tell you what he is doing, he is putting a date rape drug in your food, if he had not already put in your drink. So he places the salad in front of you and you notice he only made one plate, that is another warning sign. Now you are in it. You eat the salad, although you really don’t want to but he made it. He standing around you while you eat. So he plays a little music, pours some wine, and then before you know it you are all over him or he to you but he will be a gentlemen about. The moral of this story is always go to a local place near where you live, during daylight and have a drink or eat maybe walk around if not ready to end if you like this person first of all and call it a day.  You have to take time before going on dates that you are unsure about. You have to remember how you met this person and there are limits for your safety. You were lucky that you made it out of there. If your mind is strong, at some point you know to leave but it may take awhile, but again this person was a gentleman, he did not force himself on you. But what he did was drug you. It is all the same. You are lucky. Some are violet. And this happens to a lot of young college girls on day at the university. This happens to ladies in a club who walks away from their drinks. It is all the same. So be patient. I know you are excited but let time take its course when dating an unknown and no past to recollect with. (Want Millionaire Dating Advice)

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(Millionaire Dating tips) For you to fully benefit from the opportunities that online dating/chatting and email present you with, you must firstly be completely honest with yourself why it is you have chosen to try online dating, and secondly what it is you are looking to find. Can you meet your true love on the Internet? Absolutely, but it takes much more than just a few flirtatious emails and chats to find "the one".

For everyone to fully benefit from online dating your profile is key. Be open, be honest, and by far the most important part, be yourself! Everyone finds attraction in someone they know is comfortable in their own skin, and is confident in who they are. Once you have established your profile and are happy with it you can move on to searching for possible matches. Everyone seems to look for someone closer to where they themselves live. Now there are many benefits of course with searching for someone in your same area, but do not be afraid to explore new horizons and look for that special guy or girl in Paris or England or wherever! This site has unlimited possibilities and so do you, so go ahead and search the world, you never know what you may find!

Once you find a few possible contenders, send a few winks or maybe a friendly email and wait and see if they tag you back. If the fish don’t bite straight away don’t get down on yourself! Maybe update your profile a little, add some more information about yourself spice it up, and add photos that show your adventurous side.Remember, online dating is just like shopping in a sense, not everyone is going to be a perfect fit, but the fact that your here and your trying is what brings us all together.

Make sure that once you initiate a few emails and chats with that possible match never be afraid to ask questions, some people have more experience with online dating and everyone is always willing to encourage and ensure each other. We all have the same goal, so keep an open mind, and your heart will follow.

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(Millionaire Dating Tips) Dress to Impression:

I once met someone from PS and upon arrival I could not believe my eyes. Here I was after hours of primping and it looked as if he rolled out of bed and decided to come and meet me.

First impressions make a lasting impression to this date, I still shutter at the thought of his hideous apparel.

Dress for Safety:

The only real advice I can offer is to women. I once experienced a blind date that did not turn out so well. I ended up being raped towards the end of the date, on which I decided to wear a dress which gave my rapist quick and easy access. I am not saying that my dress caused me to get raped, bur if I had worn pants it could have gave me more time to fight and get out of the situation. So be smart dress appropriately, and be safe.

Now, you’ve successfully hooked up a millionaire from online millionaire dating services or millionaire matchmakers, it’s the time for you two to meet face to face. Everyone knows that’s it’s crucial for the first meet. How to make a good first impression and pave the way for your future relationships? That’s the millionaire dating tip we will talk about today.

Part I: Physical Appearance.

You may look very well in photos, you may make others fell in love with you at the first glance of our photo, but, things are different when you meet face to face. The physical appearance bothers a lot in the first face to face meet, especially for the pairs who met each other via online dating. So, you are not advised to meet someone casually for the first time. Just pick out the best outfit from your wardrobe and make yourself well dressed up before the meet.

May people try to postpone the face to face meet due to nervousness. But it doesn’t help for the next time either. So, if your online relationship works well and you are ready for the meet, just be confident and think positive and go ahead to meet the one and make the first meet a wonderful experience.

Part II: Be realistic and keep appropriate expectations.

You may find the guy is quite humorous, quite attractive, quite hospital from the online conversations. So you should have already got a basic impression towards the guy you’ll meet. Usually, you may think he is really prefect. But after the meeting, you are disappointed because he is not so perfect and you can pick out many faults which may make you disgust.

The expectation are built based on the previous feeling you have. And your previous feelings are all based on the online communication. For most people, they feel more comfortable when they talk about things in front of a computer. When they have to meet the real person or meet face to face, they feel nervous, or they forget what they wanted to say. Following the advice of dating experts from MillionaireCupid.com, it’s very important for singles to feel ease and have an open mind when they meet someone face to face. "Don’t try to perform everything perfect, as you are actually not perfect. Don’t give too many pressure to yourself", that’s the advice from the millionaire matchmaker. 

Part III: Tips for safety and security.

When talking about meeting in person, the safety problems can never be ignored. No matter how good the one you’ll meet, you should still think about the bad things that may happen. When you are going out to meet someone new, please remember to inform your close friend about the location and contact number of the person you are going to meet. When you are there, keep your friend informed too. 

Where to meet? For the first meet, public place is preferred. Don’t trust others too much. You must have your own judgment when you are suggested to go to some other places which are not on the plan. Movie may not be a very good choice for the first meet, as it wastes lots of time and you may not have enough time to talk.

Part IV: Conversation for your first dating.

Generally speaking, you’ve learned a lot of the person you meet through the previous online communication. And you basically know the likes and dislikes of him / her. So, you can pick out some topics which may interest him/her as a start. Don’t ask questions which can be answered by a simple "yes" or "no". Just talk about wide topics so that he/she can join the conversation and have a lot to say.

Of course, the aim of the meeting is to learn more about the one you are dating. You should not forget to ask questions about his/her own life. Usually, that shows you the real side of his/her life. However, you are not advised to ask too many private questions on the first meet, just follow your own feelings, said the millionaire matchmaker.

Part V: Kissing goodbye.

Time is always short when you are together with the right people. It’s really difficult t say goodbye when your dates comes to an end. Remember to give compliments before the date is over and let the other person know your feelings.

You may give a phone call or send messages to your date once you return home. Tell him/her that you had a great time and wanted to meet him/her again soon.

Online dating is complicated. But you’ll find lots of fun if you can use it appropriately. Just make full use of your intelligence and bring more interesting experiences to your dating. We also appreciate your successful dating experiences with online dating. For more dating tips, visit Want Millionaire Dating Advice. For meeting quality singles, visit Millionaire Matchmaker.

Just met a very simple question. Some guys get responses with R.S.V.P. at the end of the email. What’s the meaning? Have you ever got that?

­R.S.V.P. stands for a French phrase, "répondez, s’il vous plaît," which means "please reply." The person sending the invitation wo­uld like you to tell him or her whether you accept or decline the invitation. That is, will you be coming to the event or not?

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In the year of 2011, online dating has been even more popular than ever. More than 80% singles worldwide have joined all kinds of online dating services, niche dating sites for the purpose of locating the right people for romance, dating, relationships as well as marriage. Message says, just in June, 2011, more than 300,000 new members join the millionaire dating niche, including millionairecupid.com, wantsmillionaire.com, wealthychats.com, and millionairematch.com. Let alone the other niche dating just like interracial dating, large singles dating, military dating, Lesbian dating, ebony dating, single parent dating… However, the biggest dating site match.com is not the best choice for most people as they are too general which makes us hard to find the right guy with the right characters.

As more and more singles choose online dating, the competition of looking for the right people becomes more tough too. So, how to how your best in online dating and make yourself stand out becomes the problem. Follow us, you will get the desired information which helps you attract more potential dates as well as friends.

When you register yourself with online dating sites, your profile will show the first impression to your viewers / visitors. The quality of your profile will decide whether the viewer will stop by and say hi to you. So, if you can keep the profile visitors, you win the first round. Following the advice of some professional dating counselors, you can attract your visitors by the following improvements:

#1 Profile headlines. Headline is the start of your profile. There’s little need to discuss how important it is. Just put yourself in the show of profile visitors, do you have enough patience to read the full profile if you see a very bad headline just like “hello”, “I’m me”, “drop me a message”, “contact me for more information”… ? Probably you won’t. You will step to the next profile as quickly as possible. So a millionaire dating counselor at millionairecupid.com told us that half of the job is done if you have a good headline.

#2 Describe yourself honestly, carefully, seriously. This is the place where others can learn about you. If you don’t provide enough content here, others may have no way to learn about the real you. But some people may not have enough to say. So we talked with some dating experts on MillionaireCupid.com for this issue and got some tips for you. Before writing this, you may think on the following questions carefully:

1) Do you believe in love at first sight?

2) Have you got some interesting stories which happened to you or your friends recently?

3) Have you got some plan for further relationships, or marriage?

4) How and when would you usually like to meet someone?

5) How would you describe yourself physically?

6) How would your best friends describe your personality?

7) What are you looking for in an ideal match?

What do you do for a living?

9) What do you like to do in your spare time?

10) What kind of music do you love?

11) What’s the most proud thing you’ve ever done?

12) What’s your hobby?

13) What’s your idea for a perfect date?

14) Why are you still single (if you are more than 30 years old)?

15) Write down 5 or 10 important things about your own life. Descriptions should be clear and accurate.

Following these tips, you may write a self introduction with more than 5000 characters easily. You don’t need to write everything there. Just pick up the most important characters which describe you best. This way, your are very likely to get a quick hello from your profile viewers.

#3) Right after introducing yourself, it’s the right to write something about what you are looking for. This is a very important section for looking for the right people for you. Some guys may simple put “he/she must be real and honest”, “he /she must be beautiful or handsome”, “ask me if you are interested”… Generally speaking, nobody would like to spend time on asking what kind of people you are looking for. It’s a waste of their time. And they can simply hit the “Next” button to browser the next profile. With this question, we got some helpful suggestions from dating experts at the millionaire dating site wantsmillionaire.com. Here’re the content for how to describe the one you are looking for. You may think over on the following topics and write something you wanted most.

1) Can you describe your ideal match in 3 or 5 words?

2) Do you have special requirement for his/her age, location, etc?

3) Does he/she need to be financially independent or emotionally stable? What about yourself? Why or why not?

4) How would you like to describe the perfect match?

5) How would you like to spend your weekend with your ideal match?

6) Outside beauty (look) and inner beauty, which aspect do you care about most? Details?

7) The 3 characteristics you care about most of your perfect match.

What did you dislike about him/her?

9) What does your ideal match do for a living?

10) What hobbies and interests should your match enjoy?

11) What kind of people do you like/dislike?

12) What would happen on the first date?

13) What would you expect on the first date?

14) Write down 10 attributes your ideal match must not possess. For example: not smoke, social drink, etc.

15) Write down 10 attributes your ideal match must possess. For example: love children, love my parents, not a workaholic…

4) Once you’ve write everything on the profile, the last thing you should do is to add some quality photos. We are usually advised not to judge the people according to the look, but we usually don’t do that. We still judge people with their looks. So, a quality picture says more than 1000 words. Note, we said “a quality picture”, not “a picture”.

After a detailed analyze of more than 5000 member photos on the millionaire matchmaker, dating experts from millionairecupid.com told us: Facial expression is very important to determine the quality of the photo, while eye contact with the camera is quite effective for facial expressions.

Tip 1: It’s better to smile. According to the investigation, about 1/3 of the men’s pictures are smiling pictures, while more than half of the women’s pictures are smiling pictures. For the same person, smiling photo and unsmiling photo, which one will you prefer? Just check the following picture as an example:

Tip 2: Make sure your face is showing. Some people may want to highlight their eyes, their legs, their shows… But, a clear face in the main photo is a must.

Tip 3: Guys, don’t forget to put your shirts on. It’s not a mistake to show your muscles, but you should also remember that you are dating, you are showing yourself to different genders. So, well-dressed photo is much better.

Online dating is always on changing. There should not be any fixed rules which will work forever. Keep in mind of the previous mentioned tips and try to use it in your dating practice and further improve it according to the real situation, you will be the one who stand out of the rest. Your possibility of successful dating will be doubled, tripled,…

You are trying online dating and got problems? Feel free to register an account at Millionaire Dating and share your problems and questions with dating experts and dating counselors. Hopefully, you will get your own success story posted on the dating site soon. (First published on Want Millionaire Dating Advice)

Don’t “friend” her too soon.
Facebook (and its ilk) is replete with creepy dudes, perusing random pictures of cute girls and sending often unwelcome friend requests. Don’t be that guy. Unless she’s an affection-hungry teeny-bopper, you’ll likely cement your rep as a certified creeper. Play it safe: Only if she gives you her phone number can you send that beloved request.
Do. Not. “Poke.” Her.
The meaning of the “poke,” a staple of early Facebookhood, has since withered with a nearly ubiquitous understanding that “poking” a hot stranger emits the self confidence of a shy 10-year-old. Don’t waste either of your time.
Get the hint.
If you have misunderstood the first two rules, or intentionally neglected them, Godspeed. If you’ve sent her a private message, and a wall post, and she hasn’t responded, let it go. Pushing for something that wasn’t really there will lead to the reprehensible (gasp) un-friending. Nothing crushes the heart like the unseemly click of a button.
It’s a small world, and Facebook makes it smaller.
This is a good time to strategically assume. Assume she has friended her grandmother, her niece, her boss, and definitely every one of her friends. Read carefully: Anything borderline inappropriate will deposit you under the crushing weight of rejection, not to mention the embarrassment that will follow.
Don’t front.
Holla. A little online research is OK. She does it. Her friends do it. Everybody does it (ever Google your name? Of course you have). But don’t “What Women Want” this. Playing to her ego might land you in the sheets, but it might well land you a slap in the face. Be real.
Transition. Do it.
So, say you follow all my awesome advice and begin a flirty conversation. Now what? Well, if you keep it on the ‘Book, it will there forever remain. The goal is to convert that initial interest, the pique in curiosity and take it to the personal. Casual transition is key – don’t ask for a date. Casually mention you had a rough week and that a drink sounds delicious. Or that you are excited about the k.d. lang concert. Set the bait. Cast the line. Wait for the bite.